Sometimes, I think I tend to worry unduly..
明明就不关我的事,但我却好像比当事人更担心!为什么我也不知道。。
就好像当朋友参加考试时,我会显得比他们紧张。。
对,“皇上不急,太监急”, 就是最能传达我此刻的心情。。
是时候把这个坏毛病给改掉了!
Friday, August 10, 2012
Friday, July 27, 2012
众
I would say, 人与人相处,并非件容易事。
9 days in BKK, didn't expect much, and glad I didn't. COZ IT WAS BETTER THAN WHAT I EXPECTED! HAHA!
But some times, it is true that without expectations, Life would seem to be better. Coz we learnt that when experience exceeds expectations, you will be happy. =)
For example, some times, when someone approaches you for your help, you would expect him/her to take more initiative and proactive. And well, when he/she didn't, you will somehow feel disappointed coz that someone might just take you for granted and thinks that you will help him/her no matter how busy your schedule is.
But anyway, leading back to the topic of the day, I would say, it's easy for friends to hang out together, but it's difficult for friends to live together. Well, afterall, it was a trip with 4 people with 4 different habits, living for NINE (till today, I still think it's too long!) days. I would say, I have learnt that it is important for us to accept each other's flaws and understand where each other is coming from. 'Understand', a word seemed easy to comprehend, but a word difficult to put it into action, especially when it comes to understanding someone.
And yup, not only to accept each other's strengths and weaknesses, we should put ourselves in someone else's shoe (owhhh hopefully it doesn't stink >.<). You won't want people to not care for you when you aren't feeling well right?
But woohoo, 9 days were over, and yup, wonderful experiences were created, and I brought home a new member!!! It's called .... (are you ready to know???)).... *Drumrolll*
9 days in BKK, didn't expect much, and glad I didn't. COZ IT WAS BETTER THAN WHAT I EXPECTED! HAHA!
But some times, it is true that without expectations, Life would seem to be better. Coz we learnt that when experience exceeds expectations, you will be happy. =)
For example, some times, when someone approaches you for your help, you would expect him/her to take more initiative and proactive. And well, when he/she didn't, you will somehow feel disappointed coz that someone might just take you for granted and thinks that you will help him/her no matter how busy your schedule is.
But anyway, leading back to the topic of the day, I would say, it's easy for friends to hang out together, but it's difficult for friends to live together. Well, afterall, it was a trip with 4 people with 4 different habits, living for NINE (till today, I still think it's too long!) days. I would say, I have learnt that it is important for us to accept each other's flaws and understand where each other is coming from. 'Understand', a word seemed easy to comprehend, but a word difficult to put it into action, especially when it comes to understanding someone.
And yup, not only to accept each other's strengths and weaknesses, we should put ourselves in someone else's shoe (owhhh hopefully it doesn't stink >.<). You won't want people to not care for you when you aren't feeling well right?
But woohoo, 9 days were over, and yup, wonderful experiences were created, and I brought home a new member!!! It's called .... (are you ready to know???)).... *Drumrolll*
DD!!!!
Monday, June 4, 2012
A-Lin!
Reminder to self: to find these mp3! Or any kind souls can just send them to me! They are nice songs!
A-Lin - 現在我很幸福
給我一個理由忘記
Friday, June 1, 2012
Dreams Come True a/ka Pachelbel's Canon in D
A very nice song!!!
Actually it's Canon in D but it has lyrics added
A song played during Prince William and Kate Middleton's wedding!
Wednesday, May 23, 2012
小孩不笨
Just wanna post all my thoughts all in one go! HAHA!
Anyway, recently I was reflecting on the word 'Stupid', or '笨'...
Last week, my student told me that her friend scolded her stupid and I was thinking why on earth is the word 'stupid' invented? Because it is really a very negative word and I feel that one shouldn't use that word on anybody, it would only hurt someone's pride and bring his/her level of confidence down.. I think probably this comment would subconsciously be part of someone's Life, and that someone would probably feel that he/she is really stupid... But, have you thought of, who are you to comment another stupid? I doubt your level of thinking didn't reach there.
So, next time, if you are going to comment on someone negatively, think twice. It's okay to criticize people, but do it positively and in a constructive manner.
Anyway, WenXuan, I'm very sure you aren't stupid.
Anyway, recently I was reflecting on the word 'Stupid', or '笨'...
Last week, my student told me that her friend scolded her stupid and I was thinking why on earth is the word 'stupid' invented? Because it is really a very negative word and I feel that one shouldn't use that word on anybody, it would only hurt someone's pride and bring his/her level of confidence down.. I think probably this comment would subconsciously be part of someone's Life, and that someone would probably feel that he/she is really stupid... But, have you thought of, who are you to comment another stupid? I doubt your level of thinking didn't reach there.
So, next time, if you are going to comment on someone negatively, think twice. It's okay to criticize people, but do it positively and in a constructive manner.
Anyway, WenXuan, I'm very sure you aren't stupid.
Tuesday, May 22, 2012
There's always a rainbow after the rain
Well, there's always sweetness after bitterness, just like there's always a rainbow/sunshine after the rain!
Likewise, there's always rain after a whole of scorching sun! Love the rain, and of course, the breeze! =D
Likewise, there's always rain after a whole of scorching sun! Love the rain, and of course, the breeze! =D
Thursday, May 17, 2012
Songs to share!
Promise me, a song which someone composed for this ABU festival competition! This came out 1st!
嫁妆 by 郭静
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